I know you're going to think I'm being a party pooper, but what you've described is text book confirmation bias. You remember the hits and forget the misses. I'm not telling you what to think about what you've experienced, but confirmation bias is an excellent, satisfactory explanation. You can chose to look at it from a different point of view if you wish.
For every dream and thought that has come true, think of all the ones that have not.
Being sensitive to your surroundings to the point that some say it's "psychic" is as natural as taking a pee in the morning. To ignore the hits and remember the misses is, equally, confirmation bias. A person may have one psychic experience in their life and only one, that doesn't mean that it is not psychic ability. You can analyze it any way you want or as much as you want. You can find any number of explanations for the occurrence. Which one of them is right? Will you choose the one that suits your way of thinking? Probably. Everyone of us has psychic ability. It;s not "paranormal" it is "normal". The only ones who think of it as paranormal are usually the ones who don't believe that it exists at all.
Ask any mother if they are sensitive to their child's needs. If they have an inkling that the kids are up to any mischief when their back is turned. Mothers have an uncanny knack of "knowing" whats going on. Some call it a women's intuition. It's being sensitive to the environment. It's normal.
I have spoken to many people in my time as a tarot reader, people who never considered themselves psychic as such. Innumerably they will have a story to tell about a strange psychic like event that may have happened . A dream that came unnervingly true. Yeah sure you can pass it off as mere chance but sometimes these events change peoples lives. It's normal.
I understand where you are coming from Angelo. I really do. If you have never experienced a psychic occurrence, especially an accurate one, it is very, very hard thing to reconcile. Your first instinct when hearing these things is usually to find all of the prosaic and mundane explanations to help explain what is going on. And so you should. That is exactly the path or method you
should employ. As a tarot reader my best friend was/is my ability to be sceptical, to analyse what is being presented.To do otherwise is foolish and perilous. But sometimes you run out of the mundane and prosaic and what you are left with baffles and confuses. That is also normal.
I think most people carry on with their day to day life without caring or wondering about the small and often coincidental little psychic occurrences that happen to them. Let's face it we've all get better things to do, right? But when you start taking notice, start recording or writing these things down, often the more the strange and mysterious things and occurrences seem to increase in frequency.
Try it Angelo. When something weird, strange or out of the ordinary happens to yourself, your wife, your children. Any strange, weird or out of the ordinary stories that they may relate to you, write them down. Record them in some way, BEFORE you apply the logic and critical thinking side of yourself to them.
By all means do so AFTER recording them, but do so nonetheless. See how many things happen. Sure you may find that they are all nothing. Mere coincidence and mundane. If so, so be it. But at least you tried.