trainedobserver
Paranormally Disenchanted
Brings to mind Oliver Stone's movie: The Doors. Towards the end of the movie one of the band members says: "The band you love to hate". In this case, it's the forum you love to hate!
And, I feel I must mention again, at the risk of sounding sexist, "There are no dancing girls."
I'm not replying to your post, but was catching up on this thread. Isn't OnlyChild a woman? I thought so from her posts, but I may be wrong. I do see a lack of civility on the forum, and mention it because it's been a feature of this thread for the last few posts. I wonder if the "guests" in the numbers of tens, twenties, and thirties that I see on the forum all the time are perhaps afraid to join. Kim